Dragonfly Retreats

Heart ~ Horses ~ Healing


Experience the intuitive power of horses to transform your life.


September 8-11, 2022

Apache Springs Ranch

Sonoita, Arizona

Let's face it, we're all recovering from something. Childhood trauma, broken relationships, health issues, and even addictions.

As a vital, curious woman who is on a path of transformation, you are craving something different in your life. You want a safe place to learn about yourself without judgement.

You are ready to be inspired and experience more fun and joy in your life.

Crazy as it might sound, there is a horse who can lead you to this place.

Connect with a horse and discover your authentic nature.

Explore with us at the luxurious Apache Springs Ranch in Arizona for a unique retreat experience. 


  • Ready for to explore what's holding you back?
  • Proud of everything you've already accomplished – but you're ready to shake things up a bit?
  • Looking for community and support from like-minded women?
  • Primed and ready to learn new tools to explore what's next?
  • Ready for more fun and joy in your life?
  • Ready to find inspiration in nature?

We've got your back!

We invite you to join us to explore what's possible for you!


Apache Springs Ranch has been created to provide the ultimate, world class experience for Equine Facilitated Learning.

Due to their high level of sensitivity, horses are kind, honest, and gentle teachers that are acutely aware of our internal emotional states. They can offer us a safe environment to consciously reconnect with our suppressed needs, our genuine emotions, and the patterns we bring to our relationships.

You will be joining together with a team of very wise horses for a chance to be in community, play, laugh and support you as you embrace the next chapter of your own journey.

No horse experience is required and all work takes place on the ground.


Nancy McKay, Equus Coach

I believe that experiences are made even better when they are shared with friends. That’s why I asked TJ Killoran, owner of the Apache Springs Ranch and one of the best Master Facilitator’s to host and co-facilitate the first Dragonfly Retreat of 2022. 

I began transforming my life after getting sober in 2009 and being diagnosed and treated for ovarian cancer in 2015. I first experienced the magic of horses in 2017 in Santa Fe, New Mexico. I was working with a beautiful white mare. Her name was Artemis, I told her a lot of things and one of them being that I didn't love myself. She looked into my soul and I felt my heart open and felt love for myself for the first time. In 2018 I had two magical experiences, a week apart. One in Tucson, Arizona and one outside of Pismo Beach, California. In Tucson, Stormy, a beautiful and huge draft mare, gave me the message that I had my own back, and she stood right behind me to lean on until I believed it. She also waved her head over mine, giving me the message that I needed to get grounded. A week later in California, Spirit, another beautiful mare, echoed Stormy's actions of sweeping her head over mine – “you need to get grounded, girl friend!” I knew then that I had to learn this work to give my clients the opportunity to feel the magic that these amazing, intuitive, beautiful beings can give us. 

I am living proof that recovery from just about anything and transformation are possible no matter what age we are. 

I am a certified Equus Coach®  through The Koelle Institute and a certified Wayfinder Life Coach through Martha Beck, Inc..

TJ Killoran, Master Facilitator, Equus Coach

TJ Killoran is the Co-owner of Apache Springs ranch, along with her husband of 30 years. As a certified Master Equus coach and mentor, and Martha Beck trained life coach, she has spent the past five years coaching former combat veterans and first responders around the concept of Post Traumatic Growth.  Working together with Boulder Crest foundation, she and her horses have helped train people to thrive in the  aftermath of trauma.

Tj also serves the Couples arena, where she walks beside couples, who despite their conflicts, wish to reconnect, respect, and renew their relationships.

Tj, her husband, and their dedicated staff, also rescue abandoned foals, wild mustangs and donkeys from the BLM roundups. The ranch is their forever home.

Apache Springs Ranch is a powerfully beautiful piece of land that lies at the foot of “Grandmother Mountain”  in the Coronado National Forest.

All those who choose to visit, both 2 and 4 legged, will have a golden opportunity for a safe, and peaceful renewal.

Nancy and I look forward to sharing this land and these majestic horses with you.


Apache Springs Ranch, located in Sonoita, Arizona is nestled in the high-desert wilderness of the Santa Rita Mountains, deep inside the Coronado National Forest. It is ideally suited as a gathering place to reconnect with ourselves, nature and each other. A truly magical location for healing and renewal.


The guest rooms are located in one of two guest wings in the 6,000 square foot conference center.

Each wing of this fabulous space has six rustic, beautifully restored private stable rooms with a Queen iron bed, luxurious linens, a writing desk, and a large picture window, along with three full bathrooms with showers.

These rooms share a spacious living area with comfy sofas, dining table, cozy kitchen, fridge, microwave and sink.


Feed your soul with farm to table cuisine, lovingly prepared by Chef, Denise Purvis …. 


Equus Coaching® is an opportunity for you to partner with a horse, on the ground, to gain a visceral understanding of your own energy and the ways your inner dialogue impacts all areas of your life.

Why Partner with Horses?

Well, horses simply do not lie! Horses are herd animals and because of their inherent gentle nature and curiosity they seek connection, even with people. Horses reflect the truth of the present moment. As such, they mirror back to you the variations of the ripple effect your energy is having on them and others in their surrounding environment. If you are willing and authentic with your feelings, the horse is drawn to you and your energy. Authenticity = Safety and Safety = Connection.

What Can I Get Out of Equus Coaching®?

In partnership with the horses, as Equus Coaches®, we will guide you on a profound and personal journey to explore and discover your true nature. You will have the opportunity to gain clarity and awareness of the patterns that may be holding you back and shape how you show up in the world.

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“The session I had with Nancy provided a humongous energetic shift in my body, It allowed me to explore the attachments I had, and not only to release them, but to really rely on my body to provide the connection that I'm seeking. Thank you, Nancy for this very profound healing session.” ~ Charmiane

“My experience with Nancy and her equine coaching was transformative. I walked in, anxious and doubtful about myself and my direction. I walked out, tall, assured with a renewed sense of optimism and determination. Nancy is a phenomenal coach. I shared some deeply personal things with her, and she received those with love. Through her guidance I rediscovered and more importantly appreciated/honored my core, my essence, myself.  ~Arezou

“My time with Nancy and her equine coaching was powerful for me. My focuses on self-love, trust, and forgiveness were met with a wave of emotion through Nancy's gentle guidance and the horse's motions. Nancy was kind and persistent, not letting me give up on the nuggets of undeniable truth.  My time in the round pen renewed my soul.  ~Kathi

What you will take home:

  • Connections with like-minded women
  • Allowing yourself to be vulnerable in a safe non-judgmental space
  • The experience of shifts leading to big changes over time
  • The freedom to totally, soulfully reconnect with your authentic self
  • The benefits of showing up authentically
  • Self-care, fun, and a real sense of playfulness
  • A rested body, mind and spirit
  • Resources to support you on your journey


What's Included:

  • Private room with queen bed and shared bathroom with one guest
  • All meals beginning with the Welcome Dinner on Thursday night and concluding with the departure lunch on Sunday.
  • 1:1 Equus Coaching
  • Group Equus Coaching Activities
  • Drum circle
  • Meditative walks in the “Man in the Maze” labyrinth
  • Plenty of time to reflect and process in nature
  • Evening hot tub and fireside reflection

What's NOT included:

  • Your airfare (fly into Tucson International Airport)
  • Transportation to and from Apache Springs Ranch

*Special  EARLY BIRD Pricing*

Save $500


Regular Pricing effective July 16, 2022


**Registration Deadline is August 8, 2022**

Space is limited to 12 participants to ensure a rich, transformational experience

Register Today!

No horse experience is required.

Concerned about Covid-19?

We understand. You’re safety is a high priority. Thus we are taking precautions in order to gather safely:

  • Our group size will not exceed more than 12 participants. 
  • All of our activities will be organized outside. 
  • Meals will be indoors unless weather permits outside dining.
  • You’re welcome to wear a mask if you prefer and we’ll be able to easily create distance as needed
  • If you face the unfortunate event of becoming sick with covid-19 leading up to this event, we will make every effort to apply your retreat fee to a future program or virtual coaching support by Nancy McKay.

Cancellation Policy

Due to the costly, non-refundable nature of reserving venues for various events, and the limited spaces available in workshops and retreats, a cancellation made 60 days or less from the dates of an event is non-refundable. 

Cancellation made prior to July 8, 2022 will result in a loss of 50% of the trip price.  Cancellation made after July 8, 2022 will result in a total loss of funds.

Trip cancellation insurance is always recommended; we suggest Travel Guard Insurance, which has several policy options.


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