Your life has changed…
Has your life been turned upside down? Have you gone through something so difficult your head is spinning? Whatever your wake up call is, your life has changed and you’re not sure where to go from here. As a result, you ask yourself, “what do I do next?” You know you could make some changes, but you don’t know exactly where to start—and your fear of making a mistake is paralyzing. You can move past your fear of change to find the happiness you deserve.
And then there’s this…
To top it off, you’re getting older and now you feel like life is passing you by. If you’re like most people, you had all these dreams and plans that you’ve put off for “someday” (for instance, spending a few months in Europe, taking that art class, or starting a new career). Or you’re angry and resentful at, well, just about everyone and everything, so you want to find out why. Whenever you start thinking about doing something that makes you excited about your life again, your lizard brain, (remember mine-her name is LuLu), tells you, “I’m too old,” “It’s too late,” or “I can’t afford it.”
Do it for yourself…
I’ll bet you feel guilty and selfish for wanting to do something good for yourself, let alone go after your dreams. And you’re so damn worried about what everyone will think, right? Listen, your heartburn is trying to tell you something, and trust me, it’s not from the burrito you had for lunch— it’s from all the stress of not following your passion. What if change didn’t have to be so scary?
Move past your fear of change…
You can confront your fear of change and move past it. Imagine starting your morning yelling “Hell yes!” instead of wondering “What the hell?” Your wake-up call has given you the nudge you need to start really living the life you’ve always dreamed of and deserve. I know that deep down inside, you want to discover your unique gifts and what lights you up, just like I did.. Certainly, you want to appreciate your life and really start thinking about what matters to you.
I know how you feel…
When I decided to quit drinking and when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, I was terrified. I was able to move past my fear because my family and friends supported me along the way. Here’s the deal though, sometimes you have to ask for help. I had to ask for help to stop drinking, and to stay sober. Admitting that I needed help when I was sick and couldn’t do “normal” was hard, but I did it. Just because you ask for help doesn’t make you weak. If anything, asking for help has given me strength and courage. As a result, I welcome vulnerability and I’m transparent about it. I need all the help I can get, and I ask for it!
It is NOT too late, and you are NOT too old…
I started changing my life when I quit drinking at 52. After my cancer diagnosis my perspective changed and I started studying for my new career at 61. Investing in myself has been critical in my self-development. As a result of the work I’ve done, have been able to move past my fears. I’ve changed my life so much, the last ten years have been my best. And, I’m just getting started! My hope for you is to realize that now is the time for you to do something courageous for yourself. You can change your thinking and be thankful for that wake-up call. It’s possible for you to learn that without the chaos, you wouldn’t be ready to make a change. You’ll realize that your life isn’t over—it’s just beginning.
Let’s change your story…
I coach women over 50 who have gone through a major change in their lives and they don’t know what to do next. They feel lost and afraid because they don’t know what their future looks like. I help them figure out how to feel happy and at peace with their life.
Interested to find out if coaching is right for you?
If you’re looking for a coach that will inspire, motivate and empower you AND that knows how you feel – we should talk. Helping women make a shift in their thinking and in their lives thrills me to pieces and drives everything I do.
Here’s what one of my client’s had to say:
“You helped me identify the root cause of my problem. I feel lighter after working with you and I don’t feel stuck anymore.”
Your Life. Your Choice.
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